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Convince Your Child to Listen to You

Children are pure and beautiful creatures. They need love and guidance from their parents to live a successful life. There is a saying that children are like wet cement, whatever falls on them makes an impression. It is true as our behaviour towards them modify their personality. However there are certain instances where children do not obey their parents. They behave on their own will without thinking good or bad for themselves. Parents feel that they lack somewhere and feel bad about themselves. But there are certain points which help us to help children. So parents, you can convince your child to listen to you. Convince Your Child to Listen to You Use the DO command : Children are rebellious in nature. They will do what you will tell them not to. For example you tell them not to watch TV, they will watch the TV. It is not their fault but it is ours that we use negative words in a sentence. So if you want them to do anything, tell them with positive sentences. For example if you

Remove Fear of English Speaking

English is the official language of the world. When we talk to someone who is foreign to us then we use English language as a common medium. The popularity and demand of English language is also increasing day by day. Hence people are learning English to stay ahead in time. However despite having good knowledge of this language people find it hard to communicate. They develop a fear of speaking English in public. First we need to understand the reasons behind this fear and then can remove fear of English speaking. Reasons of Fear Communicate to Impress:  We tend to communicate or do anything just to impress. We have learned this new language and in order to leave a lasting impression we speak. But when we develop this thought of impressing others, we also develop a fear of being unsuccessful. So confidence and fear go hand in hand. We assume that if we are unable to impress then we might become a subject of laughter. That fear hinders us constantly and we become less confident in

Self Treatment of Depression

Depression is a severe negative state of mind. During that phase we are unable to do something productive. Our whole day usually goes in being sad or doing nothing at all. We feel that occurrence and treatment of depression is out of our control. But that is not at all true. Whatever happens to us is our responsibility. If depression can come then it can go out too. We can our own self do that. In this blog we will learn the self treatment of depression. What We Feel in Depression ? There are certain emotions we experience during depression: Worthlessness:  The person feels that they can not do anything and they are good for nothing. Self respect and self love is very much deteriorated.  Our mind tries hard to recover but negative thoughts are beyond our control. Guilt & Anxiety:  Depression arises because of negative thoughts. They occur majorly for two reasons - when we have not come out of our past or when we worry too much about future possibility. In either of the situa

How to Spot Any Liar ?

A person lies on a purpose. To avail their own benefit and get away from any possible harm. One can not trust a person who lies or who gets caught lying. It is important for us to know who is lying in any situation. Here the knowledge of body language comes in spotlight. We speak after thinking which is controlled by our conscious mind. But the movements of our body movements is controlled by subconscious mind. Our subconscious mind does not lie. It always speaks the truth. With the help of body gestures we can learn to spot any liar. How to Spot Any Liar There are certain gestures which help us in this cause. Following are 5 gestures to spot liars: The Long Pause:  Speaking takes effort of thinking process. We think and then speak. During lying a person will take a longer pause than usual while talking. That pause allows the liar to formulate the lie and plan every word. If during a conversation speaker is taking longer pause then he is probably lying. The Eye Dart:   During a

Control Your Mind & Achieve Anything

A Great leader has said "I fear the one who has controlled his mind". Mind is the key for every great thing we have ever wanted in our lives. It has the power to turn impossible into possible. It can be great asset but also a great enemy if left uncontrolled. But how can we control our mind? How can we control our thoughts? How make our mind work for our goal? Watch this short & informative video to understand the simple process. You can control your mind and achieve everything. Control Your Mind & Achieve Anything We have continuous thoughts emerging in our mind. They may be progressive thoughts or maybe without any reason. The most important factor is to control mind. In order to do so we have to take care of following steps: Positive thoughts will manifest into a positive result. The intentions behind any task should be positive. This is also identical as Law of Attraction. When we think and speak positive, we get positive outcome. Thoughts possess very power

Why Do We Fear ?

Fear is an emotion among different others found within us. These emotions help us to react to certain situations and make us feel more like a human. Everybody feels it but it doesn't mean that they have to live with it. With time it is important to control over fear. Or else soon it may turn into phobia. Phobia is much more difficult to treat and takes longer time. But despite that we all wonder that why do we fear on several situations which weren't that frightening. Why Do We Fear? First of all fear happens at unknown experience. It may be an object, a situation or even some living organism. It makes us defensive. Our mind analyzes situation and accordingly the level of degree occurs. For example we fear before giving an examination. We also fear when we jump from airplane for the first time for paragliding or any other sport. It happens in all situations but it's the level of tension that it causes us that matters the most. If we let the fear to happen every time wi

How to Appear Confident Always?

Confidence is the key to success. It makes our life easy and smooth. No matter what the obstacle is, confidence helps us to get over it quickly. In today's time everyone wants to look confident to get success in every aspect of life.  But still sometimes we feel how to appear confident always. Because at some part of the day we feel less confident. However there are certain steps which helps us to appear confident always. How to Appear Confident Always ? Stand Up Straight: Confidence gets reflected a lot from our body language too. Our standing posture shows how much confident we are. A confident man/woman will always stand with straight back. This comes automatically with high confidence. Keep Chin & Head Up:  Now in this we need to have little precautions. This gesture fills negative pride too so according to situations we need to keep them up. Head and chin up shows that person has self respect and confidence. Keep Hands Out of Pocket:  This gesture exhibits reserved

Hypnotize Anyone Without Telling Them

Hypnosis is an altered state of mind. It helps in improving our mental strength. Hypnosis is practiced since ages and has several recorded examples as well. Being a hypnotherapist you have to understand personality of your patient. Everyone has different personality and thus different techniques are used. However sometimes you can hypnotize anyone without telling them. There are just few things which we need to keep in mind. How to Hypnotize Anyone Without Telling Them ? Why is there a need for a therapist to hypnotize anyone without telling them? First of all, hypnosis does not mean mind control. So in hypnosis the control remains with the patient. The patient comes to a therapist with a hope as well as a fear. The issues and problems make their life uneasy and they come for the treatment. But they have this fear of hypnosis alongside. They do not know what happens in hypnosis and the fear of unknown makes them stay defensive. In such situations the hypnotherapist uses the indire